Lord Raffles
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Dancehall167 said:Hello yes i used to come on here on the old forum and yes i am back on this one. I will stand up for teen mums any day trust me. People putting us down. We are doing good jobs at motherhood no matter what anyone thinks. I have an 11 week old son and he is my world, he is all i live for. And no way am i going to sit back and listen to people going on about young mothers how pathetic we all are. Im a young mum and i do a good job at it. I love it. At the end of the day i've been with my boyfriend for over two years and i never got pregnant but at 17 i fell pregnant and not on purpose. At first i felt like my world was ending, i felt like killing myself i was so upset, but never and i mean never would i have an abortion, and if i did i wouldn't have my beautiful little boy now. I know it must be annoying to you people with people like us getting benefits as you all pay for it, but i never got pregnant on purpose and i need the money to bring my son up. When i found out i was pregnant i got a job straight away and worked till i couldn't no more, i saved every penny i earned and so did my boyfriend. I cant work no more as i have the baby so i need financial support, but when i feel he is old enough and i can go off and leave him i would love to go back to work, i really would, i miss getting up and going off to work and meeting new people. But i don't feel ready to leave my son yet, he is still only very young, i'd worry too much about him and miss him dearly that it would drive me insane, and at this time its about bonding with your child, i don't think people think about the bonding side of things. I don't agree with teens getting pregnant on purpose as having a baby is a big responsibility to take on in life, and its silly when girls wont to get pregnant at a young age because they think it will make their relationships stronger, because it definately doesn't. I wouldn't change anything for the world, i have my beautiful little boy and my boyfriend, thats all that matters in my life now.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbtalkwales/F2697581?thread=1584736
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