Am I an Ass Hole?

[bad dog]

My 22YO daughter never does any housework, has a job that's less than 16 hours a week and pays $40 a week rent. she spent 10 months with no job.I told her she needs to find someplace else to live.

She had been driving my car with no license , never checks the oil or water and just takes off any time she wants like midnight till the bars close..

So I take the keys from the key rack and stash them..

The next day she gets up, sees the keys are gone and throws a huge temper tantrum, calls my fiancee a fucking bitch . I was out taking care of my mom and dad and was not home.

My sister comes over and acts like we are mean to my daughter and says we should help her out. somehow Im the bad guy. So my sister tells her to get some clothes and they leave.(thank god) we have had huge blow outs before over asking the bitch to help around the house to witch she says she will not!

My plan now is to tell my daughter 2 things...

1. Pack your shit!

2. leave right now!

So am I an asshole?

I did change locks on the doors to the house today.

 

[Filthy Whore]

You're an asshole but you're right about this. She needs to learn to be an adult and maybe this will help.

 

[bad dog]

It does break my heart a little but I so want that brat to walk her big ol butt to work. I dont owe her a fucking thing.

Im still debating stacking her shit out in the driveway, I will see to it her shit is out of her room this week for sure.

 

[Love Child]

You did the right thing. Now your sister can try to support her and she will see how long that lasts.

 

[Enkephalen]

Well, of course you are. . .in her opinion. Now, if you give in to her, then you become one to every parent out there.

 

[NeonMercuryASH]

Pretty much.

 

[Archibald Nixon]

Pack all her shit up, but put it in the garage --not the driveway. That way it won't get rained on/fucked with and she won't be able to glom onto another bullshit excuse to villainize you. Also, when she comes to get it she'll be out of your hair faster than if you left it all in her room (if she can't bring herself to clean around the house, imagine how long it'll take her to find/pack her own stuff...classic passive/agressive behavior.)