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ha ha. He called me while he was out at dinner with some of his coworkers, and he was walking back to the hotel with them and was clearly drunk. I got extremely jealous, because he doesn't really drink very much at home any more and I was envious of his coworkers who got to share an aspect of him that I don't get to see anymore --it was an important part of our early relationship and one I miss from time to time. I told him I was jealous and now he thinks I'm jealous of his coworkers. Not the case, but I'm having a hard time explaining that I know it is stupid and petty but that doesn't change the fact that I'm jealous and he just spent the last half-hour reassuring me that he loves me and can't wait to get home. This is completely rediculous because of course I have every confidence in him and no doubts about him but that still doesn't change the fact that I'm jealous!
It is funny but I can't laugh too hard because I can't use the *other thing* as an example of how he doesn't need to reassure me, I wish I could effectively explain that yes, I am jealous, and no, he doesn't need to change his behavior pattern.
I got extremely jealous, because he doesn't really drink very much at home any more and I was envious of his coworkers who got to share an aspect of him that I don't get to see anymore --it was an important part of our early relationship and one I miss from time to time.