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It may be co-dependent, it may not

Consumer

Consumer

Elder Statesman
Do. Not. Care.

If it is, fine.

Cheer me up, woman.

Distract me. Make me forget. Enfold my senses in black silk, the scent of you slick upon it, the touch of your nails, the taste of your tongue.

I'm tired of this struggle. Let me submerge in you. For a moment, serve me, and in turn be open to all of this hopeless rage and furry poured into the passion of my thrusts into you. Let me fill you, while you enfold me. Take me back to the earth from which I came. Earth-mother, fuck me and make me forget, even if only for a time...

Kiss me so that I stop crying.
 
Truthfully, when, how and why did being codependent become such a bad thing? I mean when did it become some kind of clarion call of dysfunctionality? Aren't all couples co-dependent to some degree or another? Aren't such things a positive if the co-dependency increases survival for the couple?

If you and a woman increase your survival and longevity by co-mingling in the described manner--then I say "pick me"!!!!

I'm, just sayin', it's a dangerousness job, but someone's got to do it.
 
Caitriona said:
Aren't all couples co-dependent to some degree or another? Aren't such things a positive if the co-dependency increases survival for the couple?
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when you're (truly and completely) with a partner, your identity shifts. You become a 2 part person with your center outside of your 'self' You need that partner to feel like a whole person. It is a co-dependent relationship by definition. It makes you feel lost when you lose that partner. Until you can bring your center back inside yourself again.
 
Co-Dependence is actually one of the greatest issues in D/s (long term, at least).

Let's just say that my therapist is "concerned" and has been encouraging me to think/act/feel (WTF?!?!) more "independent". I might fire her. We'll see.

And I'll say that when you are in that type of relationship for 12+ years, shutting it down is very painful.
 
Consumer said:
Co-Dependence is actually one of the greatest issues in D/s (long term, at least).

Let's just say that my therapist is "concerned" and has been encouraging me to think/act/feel (WTF?!?!) more "independent". I might fire her. We'll see.

And I'll say that when you are in that type of relationship for 12+ years, shutting it down is very painful.
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what is D/s?

why do you need to get away from your partner? are they an abuser of some sort? can you not trust them?
 
If I've learned anything from my relationships, it's that I better keep my damn mouth shut about relationships. God knows I ain't got it right yet...
 
Agreed.

That's all you get.

What is the Internet for if not a little self-indulgence? Certainly the Tea Room should be.
 
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Shall we all contemplate
this warped, unassailable need
to partner up?

I am not content to be self-contained
And to express, then I shall touch others
even if not it is intimate (or maybe it is MORE intimate?).

I cannot help the thought
the emotion
The hurt.

That piece, at least
is self-contained
I hurt inside.

So I think on the ideas
of carving my own beating heart out of my chest
with a rusty blade

Make that thing that aches inside
outside
And burn it to ash.

Sacrifice me
on some obscure altar
You won't even need to bind me.

Maybe I will start again?
Maybe I will be damned
Or maybe...I already have been?
 
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