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Maybe I'm old fashioned, but...

Consumer

Consumer

Elder Statesman
The source of this confusion will remain un-named.

Girl X has a boyfriend. She and he have a very tumultuous relationship. Lots of fights. Lots of sex. Passion all around.

Girl X breaks up with boyfriend. Cries. Seeks comfort in friends. Tells us all what a bastard he is. Other women involved. Jealousy. Mooching. Didn't give her laptop back to her until she threatened to call the police. That kinda thing. I think they threw stuff at each other during the breakup.

So, to MY logic, "broken up" means you stop sleeping together. Apparently, in today's culture, that is not the case. "Oh, we are broken up, but we still fuck occasionally, but only like once a week. And he has to wear a condom now because he's fucking someone else too".

WHAT!??!!

Maybe it's an 'angry sex' thing? However, to me they aren't "broken up". I'm not going to be so sympathetic the next time she "breaks up" with him and comes crying.
Maybe I should sleep with her, just as a friend? (she's kinda cute in a faded, mid-30's former goth/schoolgirl kinda way)

I thought I understood women (in general). I may be dumber than I thought.
 
Well, you know, if you're going to have sex with someone you're not in a relationship with, an ex is a perfect target! You know what they like, they know what you like, you're perfectly comfortable around each other (naked), and there's no awkwardness of finding and meeting new people. Win/win/win/win all around.
 
Sex with a condom is not sex. Sorry folks. Safe yes. Sex no. Animated dildo.

No semen. No sex.
 
Pre-marriage 'ex'....mmmm...maybe.

The "ex-Ex", sorry, not interested. The girl I'm talking about is not someone I've boned.

Interesting view 'gear.
 
'Gear said:
Sex with a condom is not sex. Sorry folks. Safe yes. Sex no. Animated dildo.

No semen. No sex.
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I can't say I've heard that excuse before for why a guy doesn't wanna wrap it up before he fucks me.

I guess I've been fucking animated dildos then.
 
puzzling. IMO that woman has not enough self esteem (or brains). When I break up with a guy he can consider himself lucky if I don't break any of his vital parts. And I most certainly won't share his bed ever again, whether with or without a condome.


@ 'Gear: there I disagree. Sex with a condome may be slightly awkward but it's certainly less unpleasant than catching some kind of sexually transmittable (or is it 'transmissable'??) disease. With a partner who I know has other sexual contacts besides me, I'd always insist in a condome for reasons of my own safety.
The same goes for spontanous sex with someone I only just met. Who knows where his penis was a few hours before? (Plus I don't currently use any other means of birth control and getting pregnant at my age would not only be risky but the child would almost certainly have heavy genetical damage).

As tempting as the opposite may be, common sense should always overrule the hormonal drive.
(the old saying "better safe than sorry" takes on completely new dimensions in this context *grin*)
 
Would a person need to use a condom for sex with a woman if he could provide photographic/video evidence and a signed affidavit that his penis had only been in the possession of his hand for the hours, days, weeks, months...37 years before said sex act took place?
 
The Call Of Nature said:
puzzling. IMO that woman has not enough self esteem (or brains). When I break up with a guy he can consider himself lucky if I don't break any of his vital parts. And I most certainly won't share his bed ever again, whether with or without a condome.


@ 'Gear: there I disagree. Sex with a condome may be slightly awkward but it's certainly less unpleasant than catching some kind of sexually transmittable (or is it 'transmissable'??) disease. With a partner who I know has other sexual contacts besides me, I'd always insist in a condome for reasons of my own safety.
The same goes for spontanous sex with someone I only just met. Who knows where his penis was a few hours before? (Plus I don't currently use any other means of birth control and getting pregnant at my age would not only be risky but the child would almost certainly have heavy genetical damage).

As tempting as the opposite may be, common sense should always overrule the hormonal drive.
(the old saying "better safe than sorry" takes on completely new dimensions in this context *grin*)
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That's why I said "Safe yes." I'm not disputing the danger of modern sex. I'm saying that IMO penetration with condom does not constitute sex. Neither does oral or anal. These activities suggest at sex or mimic sex but are not sex.

Albeit by my own rigid definition. Heh.
 
Consumer said:
.......Maybe I should sleep with her, just as a friend? (she's kinda cute in a faded, mid-30's former goth/schoolgirl kinda way)

I thought I understood women (in general). I may be dumber than I thought.
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I thought you were the beneficent dom building self-esteem in submissive women. That girl sounds like a project for one such as yourself.
 
eloisel said:
I thought you were the beneficent dom building self-esteem in submissive women. That girl sounds like a project for one such as yourself.
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Your dripping sarcasm is disgusting.

At first I thought to myself "how could someone like you have friends". Then I realized all they'd need to be is as disgusting as you.

I'm very happy I don't know you. I'm sure there are quite a few people who wish they were as lucky as me.
 
'Gear said:
Your dripping sarcasm is disgusting.

At first I thought to myself "how could someone like you have friends". Then I realized all they'd need to be is as disgusting as you.

I'm very happy I don't know you. I'm sure there are quite a few people who wish they were as lucky as me.
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You are right. I am going to kill myself right now.
 
@'Gear:
I respectfully disagree with you there. Nowadays condomes are so thin that you really don't feel them at all (well, at least I don't). If both the physical and the emotional feelings are the real thing, the act would be the real thing, too, unless you limit the definition of sex to the purely reproductional aspects, which - imho - would not do it justice. Safer sex can be just as much fun as unsafe one. You just have to include putting on the condome into the fun which is basically just a matter of female resourcefulness and can actually be quite a thrilling experience (or so my men told me).
 
eloisel said:
It certainly is a good thing I do not like you, care what you think, or have any need to please you in any form or fashion.
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I figured you might be bluffing. Oh well. Cry for help? Nah...

So when you crucify yourself, the feet and the one hand go pretty easy right? You'll need to find someone to help you nail up your other hand eh?

Then we can all have a pity party at the foot of your cross.
 
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