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The Dominatrix and Leadership Roles

Love Child

Love Child

One Love
I have almost always held leadership roles in my life. In school both highschool and college I was usually elected to be the group leader for projects. I don't know why.
In my current job I am in a leadership position. Whenever I try to give others a choice to make a decision, they want me to make it for them. They don't want decisions, they want to be told what to do.
In sex I usually tend to attract those that want to be told what to do. But that wasn't always the case. I used to be in relationships where I was the submissive one. But now I can only find those that are wanting me to play the dominatrix.
I don't want to be the boss all the time, I want to be told what to do sometimes.
I want to be equals.

More to Come.
 
Oh, so the other thing is-when I am not even trying-or not even trying to be "love cunt" or "love child" but just being my "normal" self, whatever that is-people start talking about whips and chains and punishment around me. People want me to punish them.
And this is in my normal day to day activities and at work even! I work with a whole bunch of massochists, voyers and kinky sex people!
 
In the bedroom as in all aspects of a relationship being equals is best.

In other work and such, it makes sense that you would be a leader, your natural capacity for this is obvious.
 
Dark Pickle said:
In the bedroom as in all aspects of a relationship being equals is best.

In other work and such, it makes sense that you would be a leader, your natural capacity for this is obvious.
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But why? Would I be happy in a non leadership role? Will I always have this role? Obviuosly you cannot answer these questions, but it amazes me that even in my "hobby" life (and you know what I am speaking of) that I am a leader as well-even tho I try to step down from that daily!
 
Love Child said:
But why? Would I be happy in a non leadership role? Will I always have this role? Obviuosly you cannot answer these questions, but it amazes me that even in my "hobby" life (and you know what I am speaking of) that I am a leader as well-even tho I try to step down from that daily!
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You might be happy, but I'm not sure you'd be as fufilled. People naturally trust you and look up to you.
 
I can be really submissive too. In fact I want to be. I want to be domiated and controled by another woman. But just for a short period of time, not for ever. Just once maybe even.
 
Love Child said:
I have almost always held leadership roles in my life. In school both highschool and college I was usually elected to be the group leader for projects. I don't know why.
In my current job I am in a leadership position. Whenever I try to give others a choice to make a decision, they want me to make it for them. They don't want decisions, they want to be told what to do.
In sex I usually tend to attract those that want to be told what to do. But that wasn't always the case. I used to be in relationships where I was the submissive one. But now I can only find those that are wanting me to play the dominatrix.
I don't want to be the boss all the time, I want to be told what to do sometimes.
I want to be equals.

More to Come.
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I'd rather people tell what to do(except failcunt he can stfu). I'm very submissive and indecisive. Its one of my biggest flaws and probably one of the reasons I don't have a definite career this late in life.:(
 
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