Messenger, I want to go back on my original statement about denial. No one can determine for you if you drink too much. They can give guidelines, but that is it. If it seems to be a problem in your life, and you want it to change, well there are obviuosly avenues to do that. Treatment centers do "troll" for clients as Jack said. Anyone could be labeled an alcoholic.
I can only speak from my experience, because it runs in my family and I showed signs of not being able to control it I decided not to drink. But it was my decision and mine alone. I can't judge anothers drinking, nor do I want to.
The other point I was trying to make-that it seems more acceptable to drink on a Friday night, act like an idiot, then to say "I don't drink"
But for me I can't, so I don't.