And so the battle wages.
Listen I am Pro-Choice but am personally against abortion. The reason I am Pro-Choice is because I want to retain the choice for myself. I don't want the State forcing me to have children or not have them. It's my body.
My personal take on men having any input into this at ALL, is this.. unless and until you take the same kind of responsibility for YOUR sexual behavior you have no say so in the result. Yes, Yes I know father's have equal rights and I'm all for that. But in most cases, you're not going to find men taking the same kind of care with their sexual behavior, why??? because they don't get pregnant.
Is this an old line of argument. It sure is. You know why it's old, because it's true. So until you men put those damn condoms on yourself and act responsibly, you get no say in what occurs in my body as a result of sex.
Now on the other hand, do I think women should 'think' before they spread their legs? You better believe I do. I do not have a bleeding heart for the women who had abortions and then 'suffer' because of that chocie. Suck it up honey. It's a natural consequence of that choice. Some of you would give those women a crying towel because they chose to get an abortion, but don't extend the same towel to those who were silly enough to be reckless, have sex, and get pregnant. They are both choices, freely made, and those women have to live with the consequences of their actions.
I'm sick to death of both sides of this argument looking to the state to protect women from their own feeble decisions. If you fuck take precautions or live with the consequences. If you want a fool proof way of avoiding pregnancy [without abortions] don't have sex [that goes for both men and women I might add]. If you fuck and get pregnant, make a choice and live with the consequences. End of story.
What I don't want to see is the State [federal or state] telling me what I can or cannot do with my body. They can regulate the conditions.. [place, 24 hour rule, time frame, etc.. ] but other than that, leave me alone. I have to live with the consequence of every other decision I make in life. Stay the hell out of telling me what to do with my body.
BTW, the question of when does life begin is simple, it begins at conception. It is a living organism, it is just not capable of survival outside the womb. That is the key here, not capable of survival out of the womb. Until it is capable of life outside the womb, it is attached to a woman's body. AND HERE ME LOUD AND CLEAR, the state is not going to tell me what to do with my body. Pure and simple.
Now personally I have a BIG problem with abortion. I'm lucky though, I lived my life so I NEVER had to face that decision. I have moral reservations about it. But those are MY reservations. I don't believe I can dictate to another woman what she should believe, feel or do. NOR should the state.