Well, then, Frau Nature, the rudeness is regretted.
The rest of the intent that you point out is not, even if the interpretation differs. I'm only interested in extraordinary women, and as counter-parts and in the female role, not in a lesser position. Were I to consider you as a "sex toy", then you should be honored, not insulted.
Your opinions about my thought processes are, of course, your own. I would suggest, however, that you are making rather sweeping statements based in very little information. Hardly critical thinking, wouldn't you say?