I did hit a deer 2 winters ago. It didn't give me a paradigm shift, it made me more paranoid to be driving.
This place I live in experiences fire season and is packed with enough stress of "Life and death" situations that I don't think it phases me anymore.
But something did give me a paradigm shift last week. And I am doing much better.
The person whose suicide I mourned through the winter had a birthday this week. I was sad, but didn't get into the dark place I usually do. I felt the darkness for a couple of hours this week, but it was nothing to worry about in my book.
P.S.
Sometimes a car accident gets a person a new car. But I would never suggest it is something they need.
The pain and medical bills and insurance headache are not worth it.