What it was, Homo, was a harmless discussion about the relative merits of pop singers, a few bawdy jokes, and a brief interlude where El tried to play victim as if she thought she was never guilty of vicious hurtful behavior ever no never, and Riotgear made one post succinctly saying he thought the passive aggressive bit was not suited for the room. NO ongoing battle, no attack, just bemusement that the three of us could carry on a polite conversation. Even my observation, which has since been proven accurate, that Eloisel is as harmless as a rusty razor blade in a kiddie pool, was followed by the self-admonishing statement that I myself had faults and was attempting to curb my impulse to correct others. What Jack hasn't posted is the dozens of other threads where we all interacted with nary a cross word: one big happy family.
Fact is, El wildly overreacted to what was essentially a mild, minefield style thread, and used it as an excuse to come back over here and get a little attention and a lovely pity party. The end.