The Dork Lord
Whipping Boy
Sloppy Joe Slop sloppy joe?
No wait. That's Lunch Lady Land.
My bad.
No wait. That's Lunch Lady Land.
My bad.
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When It Rains It Pours
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The Dork Lord
Whipping Boy
I Love Cunt
Watch It
There is a storm brewin on the front.
The Dork Lord
Whipping Boy
Thank you for your message?
Loktar
Pinata Whacker
Is it cumming from the north, south, or easterly or westerly direction?
Loktar
Pinata Whacker
Do you need an umbrella....ella...ella?
Loktar
Pinata Whacker
Dark Pickle
Fucked Off
I'm only happy when it rains!
(NOT REALLY)
(NOT REALLY)
The Dork Lord
Whipping Boy
AWESOME!
Dark Pickle
Fucked Off
Wanna get high?
Mirah
I love you
Ok here is an update:
Dinner guy #1 is out as he does not want a relationship-and neither do I-and maybe that is just an excuse for both of us-and he is probably too old for me anyway, but I still adore him and we will continue to chat and hang out.
Guitar guy #2 is on.
The other guy is on hold.
Except Guitar guy #2 seems to be a little pre occupied as well-and while I could totally go for him-I think he could break my heart, so I am a little hesitant. He may just be interested in sex as well.
Dinner guy #1 is out as he does not want a relationship-and neither do I-and maybe that is just an excuse for both of us-and he is probably too old for me anyway, but I still adore him and we will continue to chat and hang out.
Guitar guy #2 is on.
The other guy is on hold.
Except Guitar guy #2 seems to be a little pre occupied as well-and while I could totally go for him-I think he could break my heart, so I am a little hesitant. He may just be interested in sex as well.
Sadistic Bastard
No Mercy
Ahhh, the cry of every "nice guy" out there.
Gentlemen, women DO want a nice guy. But they also need to see more than "nice". Many women confuse these other characteristics as desirable, but in the "bad guy" package. They put up with the bad on the assumption they will change them (btw, this is also part of the appeal for the immature woman).
Women want a little challenge, and they want self-confidence in a partern. The "jerk" puts out a vibe that he is not desperate and that he is not overly needy (i.e. he doesn't really care). You CAN care (you're a nice guy, after all), but you need to both hold a reserve, and be prepared to walk away from a relationship if it doesn't work out. Don't compromise at the start. Be yourself. And LIKE yourself. Women will be attracted to this ability, even if you are a "nice guy". So many "nice guys" rush in with too much attention, too much willingness to 'bend' to impress a woman, and too much "need" in their manner.
I demand that someone approach me on MY terms. I am who/what I am. And if someone doesn't like that, I'm really ok with it and it truly doesn't bother me. I POLITELY send them on their way. They often take two steps, and turn back wondering what the hell happened. Back when I was a little more promiscuous, I slept with quite a few women who didn't like me, but were so intensely curious that they had to find a way "in" (and I stated that sex was their only option).
Add to that the power dynamic I demand, and I'm unusual (even if I'm physically plain) as well as self-confident. It's a powerful combination. Of course, once they are in bed, the power/sensual games and the brute honesty works on them further ("I will be doing this to you, and, my dear, you have the choice to submit or there's the door...now if you choose 'yes', then put the cuffs on your own wrists and wait for me").
I am never a "jerk". I don't lie to them. I don't play games. I follow through on my promises, and am not afraid to say "I cannot promise that.". I don't do lies of omission and I know myself well enough to be confident in this. My affection is genuine when it's there, and if it's not I don't string people along.
That is what women keep saying they want in a "nice guy". A guy who will call, be honest, and like them. But they want the rest too...someone they can't easily manipulate or compromise, someone with a "dark" edge, someone who will make them curious and feel feminine and desired...and even a little afraid from time to time, even if they won't admit it.
-SB
Gentlemen, women DO want a nice guy. But they also need to see more than "nice". Many women confuse these other characteristics as desirable, but in the "bad guy" package. They put up with the bad on the assumption they will change them (btw, this is also part of the appeal for the immature woman).
Women want a little challenge, and they want self-confidence in a partern. The "jerk" puts out a vibe that he is not desperate and that he is not overly needy (i.e. he doesn't really care). You CAN care (you're a nice guy, after all), but you need to both hold a reserve, and be prepared to walk away from a relationship if it doesn't work out. Don't compromise at the start. Be yourself. And LIKE yourself. Women will be attracted to this ability, even if you are a "nice guy". So many "nice guys" rush in with too much attention, too much willingness to 'bend' to impress a woman, and too much "need" in their manner.
I demand that someone approach me on MY terms. I am who/what I am. And if someone doesn't like that, I'm really ok with it and it truly doesn't bother me. I POLITELY send them on their way. They often take two steps, and turn back wondering what the hell happened. Back when I was a little more promiscuous, I slept with quite a few women who didn't like me, but were so intensely curious that they had to find a way "in" (and I stated that sex was their only option).
Add to that the power dynamic I demand, and I'm unusual (even if I'm physically plain) as well as self-confident. It's a powerful combination. Of course, once they are in bed, the power/sensual games and the brute honesty works on them further ("I will be doing this to you, and, my dear, you have the choice to submit or there's the door...now if you choose 'yes', then put the cuffs on your own wrists and wait for me").
I am never a "jerk". I don't lie to them. I don't play games. I follow through on my promises, and am not afraid to say "I cannot promise that.". I don't do lies of omission and I know myself well enough to be confident in this. My affection is genuine when it's there, and if it's not I don't string people along.
That is what women keep saying they want in a "nice guy". A guy who will call, be honest, and like them. But they want the rest too...someone they can't easily manipulate or compromise, someone with a "dark" edge, someone who will make them curious and feel feminine and desired...and even a little afraid from time to time, even if they won't admit it.
-SB
The Dork Lord
Whipping Boy
Yeah, I had this whole long rant about relationships and my feelings on them i wanted to type, but fuck it. I'm not the "nice guy", or the "bad boy", tho I've been called both. I am myself, and that's all I know how to be.
I will remain alone until I find someone who accepts me on my own terms.
I'm done with the fucking games.
I will remain alone until I find someone who accepts me on my own terms.
I'm done with the fucking games.
Loktar
Pinata Whacker
Sadistic Bastard
No Mercy
Good.
Once you realize it's not a game (but CAN be a sport), you're on your way!
-SB
Once you realize it's not a game (but CAN be a sport), you're on your way!
-SB