Sorry, your links are no good for me - I don't have Gmail.
If she boils the bunny, be sure you get your wife and kid out of town and someplace safe.
She's probably using you - wants citizenship - a marriage license and a kid. Once that happens, she'll drop you, and bring her old Russian boyfriend over. Maybe you should tell her how you have boiled bunnies when you found old girlfriends were using you. Might drive her off.
"I have to tell you about my old girlfriend, Wanda Rene. She lied to me, told me she loved me and wanted to be the mother of my children. We were engaged. I bought her a ring, we were looking at houses and baby room furniture. Then I found out she was using me. She was in love with my cousin, who was married. She thought if she married me she'd have reason to stay close to my cousin and his wife would never suspect. It made me crazy when I found out. I took her little mink stole and blow torched it right in front of her I was so angry."