Loktar,
I've got no illusions about you. I know you to be a turncoat kind of friend if you think the next troll that comes along is funny. I'm also almost old enough to be your mother and know what it is like to be stuck taking care of a person who refuses to grow up, makes all kinds of excuses as to why he is a failure, can't get a job, can't move out of the bad living conditions, can't make friends, can't go out, can't, can't, can't, can't. I see you - not as someone to hate or even to feel sorry for. I see you as someone to worry about and wish better things for, as someone who needs to be forced into doing a few things for yourself so you'll be able to accept other good things coming into your life. Your life will never get better until you shed yourself of this can't kind of thinking. I truly do wish you the best - good health, love, friendship, prosperity, and joy. I hope, most of all, that you can accept good things into your life.