I've mentioned TK to my friend a time or two but she had to have been looking for something offensive to bother coming here. TK is not her thing, not at all. And what I don't get is purposely looking for something to offend you, what the hell is that?! Why would someone do that? Even when I proposed that question to my friend that did it she didn't have an answer. Makes no damn sense I tell you. There could be thousands of threads in which friends of mine complained about me, I'd never go looking for one. I know I'm a good friend so anything a friend had to say at one moment in time isn't going to ruin our friendship.
I tried to explain that (we're all creeps) but my friend obviously wasn't hearing it. I'm telling you, I am a good friend, I have real life friends that can take my personality on TK but some that just can't and I advise them not to wander over here. I guess curiousity got the best of this particular friend...The other friend found the post I'd done by coincidence, I'd used her daughter's very original name and she was doing an Internet search on the name. We talked that out and it was all good, she understood my rant.
I'm struggling with that. I had it out with this friend, not in the nicest way but I still don't think I got my point across even when I had a phone conversation with her and tried to explain my feelings. We've more or less made up but she and I still have A LOT to discuss.
Well let's see. I am not a doormat, not at all, my friends would agree. I am very generous, loving and caring. Where my friends and family are concerned I live by the Golden Rule, treat others as you'd like to be treated. Sometimes it works out for me and sometimes it doesn't and I just deal with it. In dealing with it I don't rant in my friend's faces or share hard feelings unless I think it can help them. Up until this latest incident I just ranted here and that was suffcient. now I fear I'm going to have to keep some archaic hand written journal because no matter what my friend says, I'm not going to tell her everything I feel just because she thinks she wants to hear it. I accept that that's how she works and she needs to accept that that's not how I work. Friendship is give and take, she doesn't get to have it her way because I offended her on a message board I never, in my wildest dreams, imagined she'd dig around in for dirt on her.
Well I'm back and spicier than ever.