I've been the one spited. How many times have you called me nasty names off this board? Big f*ckin' deal. Did you hurt my feelings? You better believe not. You're not my friend and I don't even respect you any more, so why would I care?
And maybe you weren't paying enough attention to TK to notice some of the stuff that went on before you joined, or you would have noticed Cait standing by while some of the members, with the class and maturity of twelve-year-olds, literally savaged Shal without any kind of a defense from her so-called "friend." You can find it if you look back, but I suspect you're so enamoured of your new friends you don't want to bother.
Edited for profanity. LoP